been to on Friends Page, and LJ have reinterduced a niffy tool to notify you when your friends birthdays are about to happen! I asked and got a link here, so if you don't want to be behind in wishing your friends a happy birthday, you can get a little e-mail to let you know when they are getting older (anyone eles not wanting to know they are another year older, just take it as I am 21+), just kidding!